http://www.voodoodoll.com.tw/hehe guys, yet another test: here
And.. i am a type 2 (the Helper) with 3 wing (2W3)
Self-preservation variant
Enneagram Type 2 - The Helper (type2)
Helpers who need to be needed
People of this personality type essentially feel that they are worthy insofar as they are helpful to others. Love is their highest ideal. Selflessness (haha) is their duty. Giving to others is their reason for being. Involved, socially aware, usually extroverted, Twos are the type of people who remember everyone's birthday (uh.. nope) and who go the extra mile (yes.. for sure) to help out a co-worker, spouse or friend in need.
Twos are warm, emotional people who care a great deal about their personal relationships, devote an enormous amount of energy to them, and who expect to be appreciated for their efforts. They are practical people who thrive in the helping professions and who know how to make a home comfortable and inviting. Helping others makes Twos feel good about themselves; being needed makes them feel important; being selfless, makes Twos feel virtuous. Much of a Two's self-image revolves around these issues, and any threat to that self-image is scarcely tolerated. Twos are thoroughly convinced of their selflessness, and it is true that they are frequently genuinely helpful and concerned about others. It is equally true, however, that Twos require appreciation; they need to be needed. Their love is not entirely without ulterior motive.
Twos often develop a sense of entitlement when it comes to the people closest to them. Because they have extended themselves for others, they begin to feel that gratitude is owed to them. They can become intrusive and demanding if their often unacknowledged emotional needs go unmet. They can be bossy and manipulative, feeling entirely justified in being so, because they "have earned the right" and their intentions are good. The darkest side of the type Two fixation appears when the Two begins to feel that they will never receive the love they deserve for all of their efforts. Under such circumstances, they can become hysterical, irrational and even abusive.
Because Twos are generally helping others meet their needs, they can forget to take care of their own. This can lead to physical burnout, emotional exhaustion and emotional volatility. Twos need to learn that they can only be of true service to others if they are healthy, balanced and centered in themselves.
Enneagram Type 3 - The Achiever (type 3)
Focused on the presentation of success, to attain validation
People of this personality type need to be validated in order to feel worthy; they pursue success and want to be admired. They are frequently hard working (haha.. yes always), competetive and are highly focused in the pursuit of their goals, whether their goal is to be the most successful salesman in the company or the "sexiest" (<--ya.. for sure) woman in their social circle. They are often "self-made" and usually find some area in which they can excel and thus find the external approbation which they so desperately need. Threes are socially competent, often extroverted, and sometimes charismatic. They know how to present themselves, are self-confident, practical, and driven. Threes have a lot of energy and often seem to embody a kind of zest for life that others find contagious. They are good networkers who know how to rise through the ranks. But, while Threes do tend to succeed in whatever realm they focus their energies, they are often secretly afraid of being or becoming "losers."
Threes can sometimes find intimacy difficult. Their need to be validated for their image often hides a deep sense of shame about who they really are, a shame they unconsciously fear will be unmasked if another gets too close. Threes are often generous and likable, but are difficult to really know. When unhealthy, their narcissism takes an ugly turn and they can become cold blooded and ruthless in the pursuit of their goals.
Because it is central to the type Three fixation to require external validation, Threes often, consciously and unconsciously, attempt to embody the image of success that is promoted by their culture. Threes get in trouble when they confuse true happiness, which depends on inner states, with the image of happiness which society has promoted. If a Three has a "good" job and an "attractive" mate, she might be willing, through an act of self-deception which is also self-betrayal, to ignore the inner promptings which tell her that neither her job, nor her mate are fulfilling her deeper needs. Even the most "successful" Threes, who generally appear quite happy, often hide a deeply felt sense of meaninglessness. The attainment of the image never quite satisfies.
***very interesting answers... nothing surprising i think, but.. still true... some what... so... for those who need something to do to waste like an hour of their time... try try!!! ***
the gifts... arent they pretty?... 3 colors...i'm so amazed by us!!!
me... with the whole pile of gifts... pretty eh?
janine and i... arent we sweet? hehethe shower is a little more than a week away.. and the wedding... in like.. 40 days... ahah!!!
well... my best wishes to claudia...
next is maddy: wishes her the best in finding a good place dt... it can be so hard... hang in there... i know u will... u've got "ALL" the support u need... *wink wink*
and.. anita: "u go gurl"... find a kick ass job... and who cares about men... who needs them :) we can take care of ourselves... (most of the time).. haha...
now... i wanna cry... (small tear)
mabel and i ... empty boxes.... soon to be filled!!!!
me hiding in the cherries.... so many... see see?
mabel and i... shading with the tree? haha.. no way.. i dun care about the sun... look at my lovely tan!!!! even the cherry man tried to make a move on me... haha
keith and i... stealing all the cherries mabel picked to eat... mabel is so good.. so on top of her cherry picking tasks... i think she picked 2 of the 3 baskets... while keith and i ate all the time.. haha
haha.. how did we get on this log???.... ya.. the cherry tree fell over... and so did all of us.... (we went to niagara on the lake... this is the lake... hahah)
AGO - Andy Warhol Exhibit??? anyone??? want free tickets??? we all know how expensive AGO can be.. how unreasonable too.. haha... here's a break!!!!
http://www.ago.net/offers/cf/
fill in the form... and bring it to fairview/markville/hillcrest mall.. which ever is closest to u... there's more malls too.. i just named a few... but... its an amazing deal.. grab them b4 they go ... quick!!!! i'm going back for 2nds already!!! (on request for others.. hehe)
hihi to all... i dun usually quote lyrics... but somehow... this touched me while listening to it yesterday... i suppose it depends on your moods and what you're thinking of when listening that touches u... its not the first time i listened to this... so.. dunno why only now did i focus on what it was trying to say...
perhaps... i was thinking... it really isnt easy to find that one person you've been waiting for... everytime.. i believe u think you've found the right one.. only to find yourself heart broken in the end... anyways... i'm glad some of us has found their "only one"
the lyrics are found on the artists website below; you can listen to his songs there too :P enjoy!http://www.dfm.com.tw/2006/
專輯名稱 / 格格blue
歌曲名稱 / 世界唯一的妳
演唱者 / 曹格-gary
作詞人 / 徐世珍、永邦
作曲人 / 曹格
編曲人 / Azlan abu hassan
是你 第一眼我就認出來 這是命運最美麗的安排
是愛 讓你略過慢長等待 我們只要現在相愛 幸福就來
恨我來不及參於你的過去 抱歉讓你等待
我願意付出一切交換 我靈魂的另一半
這個世界唯一的你 是我擁有的奇跡
對我說的一字一句 都是我們的秘密
緊緊擁抱唯一的你 無可救藥的堅定
就算世界與我為敵 我也願意
我什麼都願意 過去所有的悲哀
都只是尋覓我唯一 勇敢 真愛
照亮了漆黑的夜晚 尋找了彼此一輩子 再不分開
恨我來不及參於你的過去 抱歉讓你等待
嗚...耶....
是一個奇跡
....嗚...哦...
ho ...哦...
就算讓我傷盡天理
我什麼都願意為你
oh.. more stuff ... interesting stuff... 手机辐射到底有多厉害！65分钟将生鸡蛋煮熟
do have a look... true???? someone tell me its not true!!!
